Teen mom faces big challenges (4 photos)
Monday, January 07, 2013 by: Connie Carello
This is Alyssa Plamenco.
She is 17 years-old.
Originally from London, Ontario, Alyssa had to experience a series of life changes which included moving to a new city, starting a new high school, and making new friends.
When Alyssa found out she was pregnant thirty weeks ago, she knew that the challenges she would soon face as a teen mom would only further serve to change her life.
However, her shock escalated when Alyssa found out that her unborn son, Bentley would also require a post-birth surgery for a rare condition known as Gastroschisis, a condition that affects 1 in every 500,000 unborn babies.
This condition is a birth defect which results in the child being born with their intestines on the outside of their body.
A rupture in the umbilical cord pushes the canal towards the outside of the body.
For Alyssa the whole experience has been extremely troublesome, “Being 17 years-old made me realize how hard this would be at first. It is hard enough being a teen and pregnant but finding out that your baby has a birth defect is terrifying, I was in shock for a week or two and have been having a hard time dealing with it” she said “I am extremely happy now though, I cannot wait to see him.”
After performing a series of ultrasounds on Bentley, doctors have decided to induce Alyssa at thirty-seven weeks in Toronto at Mount Sinai Hospital on February 20th.
Immediately after, Bentley will be taken to SickKids where a procedure will have to be performed in order to reinsert his intestines.
According to Alyssa, there are two options the doctors have in order to do this.
“The options depend upon whether or not he is born with his intestines swollen or not. If they are, the doctors will have to put a clear bag over his intestines called a ‘silo.’ This bag eventually loses air and with gravity pushes in the intestines through the hole. This is a much longer process. Option two requires the doctors to perform surgery immediately after birth.”
Within the first year after the operation, Bentley will have to be consistently monitored as babies who have this procedure performed often have a tendency to reject food.
A feeding tube will be used to ensure that Bentley will receive the proper nutrition he will require.
“Some babies have to have surgery performed throughout their lives if their intestines have been damaged when they are born. We really won’t know until we see how his recovery goes” Alyssa added.
On January 25th Alyssa alongside of her mother Christina Lapossie will be hosting a benefit for Bentley at the Garden River Community Hall.
All benefits will be put towards the travel expenses to and from Toronto as well as any medical equipment and procedures Bentley will require upon his return back to Sault Ste. Marie.
“I really appreciate everything that everyone has done for me so far, all the donations. They really help and I can’t honestly thank everybody enough. The benefit will really be an opportunity to help raise the funds necessary for us to stay in Toronto after Bentley is born and to tell people what Gastroschisis is, it will be a nice way to promote awareness of my son’s condition,” Alyssa said.
Tickets for the benefit are $15 dollars and can be purchased by phoning Christina at 705-975-2368.
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RobMel 1/7/2013 9:05:51 AM ReportBeing a good mother doesn't depend on your age! I am sure this experience has made you more of an adult than a lot of people in this city.
I will be posting your event in my office. We have 20 women with bleeding hearts who jump all over causes like this!!!!
Wishing you,your partner and baby Bentley all the best!
outcrop 1/7/2013 9:12:25 AM ReportWishing you and your baby the best of luck,Everything will be fine.
Wicket 1/7/2013 9:28:57 AM ReportMaturity is not registered by birth years, but is achieved through experience. Sounds like you have already acquired the Mom Maturity, best wishes to all of you.
Will be making a donation..not necessary to attend the function.
Thanks for sharing your story and please, keep SooToday and us posted on Bentley's progress.
redgypsy 1/7/2013 10:23:33 AM ReportAlyssa i am so sorry to hear that Bentley will need to go threw all this upon coming into and starting his life in this world
i was the same age when i became pregnant with my first child
and as it was already said
numbers mean nothing
for it is in our hearts and minds that we grow and mature
children do NOT come with a handbook/manual we learn as we go in most cases
you are already showing that despite being only 17 your ready and prepared to be a beautiful ,loving mother to your son
my thoughts,heart and prayers will be with you n yours
may all go wonderfully well with the surgery n may Bentley have a very speedy and good recovery
thank you for sharing
soomama 1/7/2013 10:43:35 AM ReportAre you a member of a First Nation? If so, try contacting the Dreamcatcher Fund at www.dcfund.ca, they have a Health Support fund that can assist with Travel, Accommodations, etc. They are more willing to approve applications that include personal and fundraising contributions to help offset the cost. All the best to you, your partner and Bentley!!
thomas 1/7/2013 3:07:31 PM ReportBest of luck you to and your little one. So fortunate that they can diagnose problems now before birth. Much better for the awareness, health and care of all involved.
northsteel 1/7/2013 4:22:07 PM ReportMy sisters daghter had the same surgery when she was born. My sister had the baby in Hamilton. My niece is now 19 years old.She is a happy and healthy young woman now. She has no lingering effects from the surgery. Good luck and best wishes to you nd your family.
babygriffin 1/9/2013 3:30:25 AM ReportThank You so much for the well wishes..it means alot to see the care, concern and support within our community.
babygriffin 1/9/2013 3:32:06 AM ReportIn response to Soomama...no, unfortunatly I am not part of the native community, therefore am not eligible for any of their benefits.
BeckyS 1/9/2013 3:49:44 PM ReportMy son's Daughter was diagnosed with Gastroschisis and consequently was born in 2008 with Short Bowel Syndrome. Hayden had 23cm of (intestines)bowels. A new born baby usually has 300cm of bowels. Because of the little amount of bowels she was born with, she has had several operations. She is now close to 5 years old, has started pre-school this year and is a happy active child. She is still receiving TPN every day and is an ongoing out patient at the Alberta Children's Hospital.
I guess the reason I am writing this is to let you know that there are a lot of other children out there that were diagnosed with Gastroschisis in uterine and subsequently were born with Short Bowel Syndrome. Also, there is much support from the parents, grandparents and families of these children. We live in Calgary Alberta but we are from Sault Ste. Marie. The Alberta Children's Hospital has a wonderful Doctor, Dr. Sigalet, who is involved in research to help these babies. If you go to this link you will find some information http://www.childrenshospital.ab.ca/site/PageNavigator/success_stories/leaderssavingbabieswithintestinalfailure. Also, do a google search and you will find a lot more information about Gastroschisis, Short Bowel Syndrome, The STEP procedure and Dr. Sigalet. My granddaughter has been the first child to receive treatment with the GLP-2 hormone.
Best Wishes to you and your family.
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